STORY TIME 🤧

Hey, so it’s been like ages, literally.

I feel really bad though, it’s not like I’ve been lazy or anything, school has just been extra time consuming, Honestly, this isn’t even an official post, like I didn’t plan to post today and also when I want to post anything, I usually have a hand written version of it on a notepad, but here I am typing away like a boss 😎.

  This impromptu post was triggered by my thoughts I guess. I was just laying here, thinking, letting my mind drift, and I remembered a friend I have or had or should I say a friend I think I had🤔.

Anyway, I’m just going to serve you the tea, I’m not exactly an emotional person and when I’m emotionally triggered or manipulated, I’m hardly ever vocal about it, I hate that flaw, but here’s the story I promised though.

I used to have this friend back then, let’s call her jasmine, okay so jasmine and I clicked so well on first meeting, we were like 5&6. 

We did lots of things together, ate together, went to school together, our friendship was top notch, the kind we see on internet and tag #friendshipgoals 😊

 Jasmine  had her flaws, I had mine, we grew to live with each other’s differences.
I strongly believe that if you call someone your friend, you would be able to tell the person about things they do that bother you. But for jasmine, it was like, she always wanted to be lied to, she hated the truth, everyone hates the truth but we learn to accept it eventually. She never believed in that theory though, so when I told her the truth, she would withdraw and refuse to talk to me for long.
No matter how much I like you,  I wouldn’t cease  to tell you when you do something wrong, so she made friends with people who were too nice to tell her the truth about anything, people that agree with everything she said, this isn’t me being jealous, this is me wanting the best for my friend.

   Now here’s the bad part, I later got to find out that jasmine low key hated me, was intimidated by me, was backbiting, and all of that nasty stuff, the real question is this?
WHY ARE YOU FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU HATE?

One of my greatest pet peeves is fake love. 

I’m not the kind of person who hates people but I easily get irritated with people’s attitudes, so i will never befriend someone whose attitude irritates me, we would be acquainted but I won’t be your friend. It’s that simple.
  I’m not trying to be gender selective about friends but honestly keeping beautiful friendships with girls is hard.
 Few days after finding out who jasmine  really was, I saw her, I acted like I didn’t know anything because sincerely at that point, to what end?

I actually appreciate the memories and everything but I’m not comfortable remaining friends with her, I wish jasmine the best though.

I still check up on jasmine but the fact that I took her close to me and she lived a lie right in front of my face has made me lose any iota of respect I had for her.

Moral lesson: if you have friends, tell them things they do that bother you, you can’t always agree with them, you aren’t always supposed to, that’s what friendship is about, and lastly, please and please, don’t vibe out fake love!           


CHINWEKENE ❤️